Monday 15 February 2010

Being gentle with a firm resolution to do what is right!

Have you ever had the experience of catching a little helpless injured bird when you were a child?
Can you recall the drama of trying to hold it in your hands without squeezing too hard and still not letting it escape?
Was there a cat in the neighbourhood that might find it and …. Well you know the rest!
You want to hold on to it and protect it, but you will have to let free eventually. The best you can do is help it until it gets strong enough to fend for itself.

I’m sure you may have seen some of the programs on TV about wild animals on the African plains where injured and frightened creatures are taken and restored to health. I try to imagine how terrifying it is for the animals themselves and how
Vulnerable they must feel.

They will view humans as their enemy and be afraid of them.
After a few days being looked after and nourished they will change their perception of humans and see them in a new light.

The people who are doing this work are all wonderful people with a consuming love for animals and nature – it is hard for them to break the ties that they form with those animals and set them free!

They know that they will have to be strong enough willed to let the animals free because that is nature’s way.

Life coaching is very similar – the coach has to be strong and let the client make their own decisions whilst helping them to strengthen their self belief and confidence.

Confidence is best build on a firm foundation of understanding of your own emotions and your perception of reality.


"Sooner or later, those who win are those who think they can."
Richard Bach

"Nobody will believe in you unless you believe in yourself."
Liberace

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